So, my boys are getting older, and it has been a while since I posted. Actually since July of last year! Sometimes I find it hard to put finger to keyboard and type about my life, and sometimes, I forget I have a blog at all. So, in a nutshell: Caleb is 10, Logan is 7, and Aaron is 5! They are all healthy, and they are all learning that growing up means a lot of responsibility. For a long time we would have to hound, and yell, and beg and plead with them to actually take on some responsibility and to help around the house. Then one day, I had an ah-ha moment. That moment where you say " why the heck didn't I think of this sooner?!?!" That day was the birth of this our chore chart.
At the end of the week, they earn an allowance. It is not much, $3.00 each for the week. The split the money three ways, GIVE, SAVE, & SPEND.
If they do not accomplish all REQUIRED tasks in a week, they do not receive their full allowance. Their first dollar goes to give, their second to save and their third to spend. If they do not get three, they lose out in the spend category.
Likewise, If they have a great week where they have accomplished above and beyond the REQUIRED work, then they get a BONUS. Preferably the bonus goes to the save, however, they may place the bonus as they wish. usually it is a dollar, sometimes it is more.
I find that in giving them responsibility, and trust, they are proving how capable they are.
If you are not sure where to begin, I like this list:
All of this is to say that we have a sense of less chaos in our house because the yelling is drastically reduced, and the arguments about what needs to be done are gone. This is not by any means a perfect system, but it works for us. Hopefully you will find something that works similarly as well for you!